A lot of couples could have saved themselves much pain,
agonies and tension in their relationship if only they know how to get the
three words out easily; ''I am sorry.'' As easy as those words sound, it can
become very difficult for people to utter it whether in marriage or in
professional relationships. Reports reveal that people sometimes find it extremely
difficult to say, I am sorry. It takes humility
to admits one's mistakes, although, The word can prevent violent temper, and unnecessary
difficulty in relationships. How can we learn to say sorry more easily? Why is
it so hard for many people? It is hard to say, I am sorry because the ego gets
in the way. It has been said that this problem is peculiar with men and that
men have a problem saying sorry to their wives even when they are wrong or at
fault. Is this true? People sometimes
feel an apology is in order only when they are 100 percent at fault. When two
people said bad things to each other, where is the need to say sorry? People are often too embarrassed to admit they are wrong. This problem is not limited to marriage,
bosses find it difficult to say sorry to their subordinates or employees
whereas the word, sorry, though simple can ease a lot of tension. Why do people
find it difficult say sorry? Is it a problem with men alone? Do women also fall
into the same problem? How can sorry help us build a healthy and solid relationships with others., since we all err.
Should we say sorry only when we are at fault? hese six steps outline a helpful approach:
This steps outline a helpful approach:
Be truly sorry that you upset the other party. ...
- Acknowledge the hurt done, and take responsibility for making amends. ... - Commit to not letting it happen again. ... - Express appreciation for having the other person in your life. ... - Ask for forgiveness.
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