Monday, 3 August 2015

WHY IS IT SO HARD TO SAY SORRY?




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A lot of couples could have saved themselves much pain, agonies and tension in their relationship if only they know how to get the three words out easily; ''I am sorry.'' As easy as those words sound, it can become very difficult for people to utter it whether in marriage or in professional relationships. Reports reveal that people sometimes find it extremely difficult to say, I am sorry.  It takes humility to admits one's mistakes, although, The word can prevent violent temper, and unnecessary difficulty in relationships. How can we learn to say sorry more easily? Why is it so hard for many people? It is hard to say, I am sorry because the ego gets in the way. It has been said that this problem is peculiar with men and that men have a problem saying sorry to their wives even when they are wrong or at fault. Is this true?  People sometimes feel an apology is in order only when they are 100 percent at fault. When two people said bad things to each other, where is the need to say sorry?  People are often too embarrassed  to admit they are wrong.  This problem is not limited to marriage, bosses find it difficult to say sorry to their subordinates or employees whereas the word, sorry, though simple can ease a lot of tension. Why do people find it difficult say sorry? Is it a problem with men alone? Do women also fall into the same problem? How can sorry help us build a healthy and solid  relationships with others., since we all err. Should we say sorry only when we are at fault? hese six steps outline a helpful approach: 

This steps outline a helpful approach:


                     Be truly sorry that you upset the other party. ...
- Acknowledge the hurt done, and take responsibility for making amends. ... - Commit to not letting it happen again. ...  - Express appreciation for having the other person in your life. ...  - Ask for forgiveness.

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